What happens when a man realizes he's been living his entire life disconnected from his own body, his emotions, and the people he loves most? I recently sat down with The Intimacy Inquiry to explore this question that transformed my life and now drives all my work with men: the journey from disconnection to connection....
I joined The Meademusing's Podcast because I knew their audience needed to hear this: the epidemic of male isolation isn't just a personal struggle, it's a crisis that's literally killing men, and we can't afford to stay silent about it anymore. We talked about the man box, this rigid set of expectations that tells men...
There was this moment in my conversation with Alicia and Laura on Therapy is Dope when Laura asked me point-blank: "What happens to a man when he finally sits in a circle with other men and realizes he's not the only one who feels completely ...
I had an incredible conversation on Shift Talking with Davina Hayne, diving into what actually happens when men come together to do the real work. We covered a lot of ground, from the emotional loneliness so many men are experiencing to what it looks like when guys finally find a space where they can be...
I got asked what women really need from men these days, and it's a question that hits at something real. The rules have changed from what most of us were taught growing up, and a lot of guys are walking around confused about what it even means to be a man anymore. We dug into...
What if the very thing we've been taught to avoid as men is actually the key to our freedom? I got to sit down with the Relatable Wisdom podcast to explore something that's been central to my life for almost 20 years now: men's groups and why we're not meant to do this alone. We...
There's this moment about halfway through my conversation with the Mind Over Masculinity podcast where I told a story about a client who spent three months driving to a men's group parking lot but never went inside. He'd sit there, engine running, watching other guys walk through the door, convinced that walking in would somehow...
All right, so I was on the Young Dad Podcast recently, and we got into some really important territory around why men's groups matter. Not just as nice-to-have social clubs, but as essential infrastructure for modern masculine development. What struck me in this conversation was ...
I appeared on Melanie Curtin's podcast Dear Men recently, and we got into something I don't talk about all the time but that's been a huge part of my journey. The late bloomer experience. For me, that meant being a virgin until 26 and a half. No sex, barely any kissing before college, and this...
All right, and welcome back from this conversation with Gary on What If You Could. We covered a lot of ground in this one. Gary asked me about my framing of balls and heart, and I was able to dig into what that really means for men today. We talked about how most guys have...
All right, so I just had a beautiful conversation with Viv on her show Perspective about softness and what that actually means for men. And I gotta say, it's a topic that's so needed right now because most men have no idea what to do with softness. We're taught from a young age that being...
I just got back from leading a men's retreat, and honestly, I'm still kind of buzzing from it. Got to sit down with Aneta Waclaw on her podcast to talk about men's work, men's groups, and what the hell healthy masculinity actually looks like in 2025. We covered a lot of ground in this conversation....
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