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Media Appearances

Check out a variety of podcast episodes of me talking about men's work, men's group, relationships, and so much more on a variety of podcasts.

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267: What do you do if your masculine role models sucked? | Dear Men

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What happens to a man when the very foundation of his masculine identity is built on quicksand? I had a great conversation with Melanie Curtin on her podcast Dear Men about what happens when you don't have solid masculine role models growing up. This is something so many men deal with, and frankly, it's shaped...

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263: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman | Dear Men

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Here's the tension that showed up in my conversation with Melanie Curtin about polarizing with powerful women: we want to be the strong, grounded presence our partners need, yet our instinct to fix and solve often becomes the very thing that creates distance between us. It's this paradox where our masculine desire to provide solutions...

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262: Are you lonely? | Dear Men

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During my conversation with Melanie Curtin on her podcast Dear Men, there was this moment where I found myself describing what I call "invisible loneliness" , that specific kind of isolation where a man can be at a dinner party, laughing with friends, even lying next to his partner in bed, and still feel completely...

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261: If I’m having doubts, does that mean she’s not The One? | Dear Men

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There's a moment in every man's life where he looks at the woman he's with and feels his chest tighten with that dreaded question: "Is she The One?" It's that nauseating spiral of doubt that keeps you up at night, overanalyzing every interaction, wondering if you're settling or if there's someone better waiting around the...

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259: Want her to feel safe with you, and free to be vulnerable? Learn to do this. | Dear Men

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As a coach working with conscious men, I keep seeing the same pattern: guys who can talk for hours about emotional intelligence and healthy relationships, but who completely freeze up when it comes to actually claiming the woman they're with. That's exactly what I explored in my recent conversation with Melanie Curtin on her podcast...

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250: How do you re-polarize a relationship (bring back the spark)? | Dear Men

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The biggest lie most relationship advice tells you is that men and women should meet in the middle, become more alike, share everything equally. I was on Melanie Curtin's podcast Dear Men recently explaining why this well-intentioned advice is actually killing the spark in long-term relationships. We talked about one of the most common questions...

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249: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This relationship pattern could be behind it | Dear Men

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I had the honor of joining Melanie Curtin on her show Dear Men to dive into a relationship pattern that trips up so many guys. That feeling of "I can never get it right with her." You know the one. You're trying, you're showing up, but somehow it's never enough. She's frustrated, you're defensive or...

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244: What if what makes me good at my job makes it harder to date? | Dear Men

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What happens when the very skills that make you a rockstar at work become the exact things sabotaging your love life? I explored this question with Melanie Curtin on Dear Men, diving into something I see constantly with the guys I work with: how professional excellence can actually make dating harder. We dug into different...

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241: What if you’ve ticked the big boxes in life … but you’re still not happy? | Dear Men

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What if the life you've built so carefully is actually the very thing keeping you from feeling truly alive? I got to talk with Melanie Curtin about something I see showing up constantly with the men I work with. That feeling of, is this it? You've done the things you're supposed to do, got the...

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239: Realized I’m a “Nice Guy.” Now what do I do about it? | Dear Men

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Here's the paradox every recovering nice guy faces: the moment you realize you need to stop being so "nice" is exactly when you discover that thinking your way out of it keeps you trapped in the very pattern you're trying to escape. I had a fascinating conversation with Melanie Curtin on Dear Men about what...

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235: “I see a beautiful woman and immediately get triggered. Why?” | Dear Men

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There's this moment Melanie Curtin and I unpacked on the Dear Men podcast where a guy sees a woman he's attracted to, his heart starts racing, and then within seconds this voice kicks in telling him he's not good enough, not experienced enough, not worthy ...

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232: Love languages, conflict, connection, and repair | Dear Men

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Here's the counterintuitive truth that marriage counselors won't tell you: your instinct to love your partner the way you want to be loved is actually sabotaging your relationship. I discovered this firsthand in my conversation with Melanie Curtin on Dear Men about love languages, where we unpacked how our default ways of giving love often...

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232: Love languages, conflict, connection, and repair | Dear Men

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