One of my clients came back from a three day ski trip with the buddies he’s known since childhood, right in the middle of his marriage falling apart, and only one of them asked what was going on. He came home lonelier than when he left. That story is basically...
I was in my mid-20s, still a virgin, numbed out on porn, and I didn’t have the first clue how to be in my own body. That’s where I started, and that’s the story I brought onto Born without a Choice this week, because I think a lot of men are living...
There are two ways men have learned to fail at masculinity, and most guys I work with have lived both of them. Either you’re the macho jerk, or you swing so hard away from that you land in what I call the new age wimp, all attunement and no spine, unable to set...
Nice guys aren’t nearly as nice as we think we are. That’s the paradox I got into with Lauren on this episode of The Connection Podcast, and it’s one I’ve lived through myself. We talked about where nice guy syndrome actually comes from, not...
There’s a moment every man will face where his body simply won’t let him push through anymore, whether that’s illness, an accident, or just the slow arrival of old age, and when that day comes, what you’ll have to lean on is the relationships...
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