Most dads I work with think they’re doing it right. That’s the problem. They’ve provided, they’ve shown up to the games, they’ve built the ideal family, and then their wife says something has got to change and he has no idea what...
Most men I know can tell you exactly how many hours they worked this week, and almost none of them can tell you what they felt on Tuesday afternoon. That’s a big part of what Dave and I got into on this one. I shared how I stumbled into men’s work through...
There’s a moment in this conversation I still think about: a guy in one of my groups finally admits, out loud, that there was a stretch of his life where part of him thought about just checking out. Another man in the circle doesn’t try to fix it. He just...
There’s a study that asked people, across cultures, what actually marks the moment a boy becomes a man. For girls, the answer was simple, her body matures, she can have kids, she’s a woman. For boys, it had nothing to do with the body. It was about...
There’s a version of the lone wolf that gets romanticized in movies and gym locker rooms and every joke about the guy who doesn’t need anybody. Here’s the actual biology of it. The lone wolf is the one that got kicked out of the pack, and he dies...
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