There’s a moment Jason Lange sees over and over with the men he works with, when the old script finally breaks. You did everything you were told to do, provide, stay tough, never crack, and you’re still lying awake thinking this can’t be all there...
I sat down with the hosts of KneeToKnee to talk about something I see constantly in my work with men, and it’s a hard one to name because it doesn’t look like a problem on the surface. The nice guy isn’t the villain of the story. He’s the guy...
Most men spend their entire adult lives being rewarded for leaving their bodies. And the cost of that doesn’t show up all at once. It accumulates quietly, in the rumination, the health problems they ignore, the relationships where their partner says “I...
Most men I know aren’t lonely because they’re alone. They’re lonely because the relationships they have never go underneath the surface. That distinction matters more than almost anything else I talked about in this episode of The Divergence Room. We...
Eighty percent of men who died by suicide in one Canadian study had reached out for mental health support in the year before they died. They weren’t suffering in silence. Something else was missing. My read? Community. Belonging. Six to twelve guys who know your...
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