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For men wanting to deepen their presence in the world, clarify their purpose, and/or more easily connect with their power. Ways to work with me include men’s groups, deep dive shadow weekends, and our signature virtual transformation for men wanting to deepen their relationships with women (and life) – Pillars of Presence.

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Want Your Relationship To Bloom? Do This!

Want Your Relationship To Bloom? Do This!

If you’re a man that’s wanting to deepen your relationship, whether new or old, tune into this episode of the Dear Men Podcast where host Melanie Curtin and I explore what it means to truly claim a woman.  This isn’t about some macho patriarchal domination/ownership thing, but about what it means to truly hold a loving partner in your attention in a way that makes her feel safe to be vulnerable and truly shine.

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How to Re-polarize and Bring the Spark Back to a Relationship That’s Gone Flat

How to Re-polarize and Bring the Spark Back to a Relationship That’s Gone Flat

What happens when a long term relationship goes flat? You’re connecting, you’re friends, you get along, but there’s zero spark or erotic energy?

Almost all long term relationships have this problem at some point, and it’ll often fall into the bucket of either being a totally neutral relationship or even a reverse polarized one.

Melanie of the Dear Men Podcast and I break down this pattern, and what can be done to change course and bring the spark back to any relationship.

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The Painful Relationship Pattern of Feeling Like Not Enough

The Painful Relationship Pattern of Feeling Like Not Enough

Back with Melanie on the Dear Men Podcast to talk about one of the most painful patterns men can experience in relationship which centers around feeling like not being enough for our partners. In many hetereo relationships, the dance of “I’m not enough” felt by many men often collides with the feeling of “I’m too much” that’s often felt by women. In this episode we break down this pattern, share about where it’s shown up in our own relationships and those of our clients, and talk about steps to move beyond it.

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How Your Job Can Make It Harder to Connect With Women

How Your Job Can Make It Harder to Connect With Women

On this episode of the Dear Men Podcast, host Melanie Curtin and I discuss how what makes us great at certain professions can actually hinder our ability to connect with women or others in relationships. High intensity medical jobs, isolated and work from home coding jobs, and jobs with unpredictable schedules or high demand can impact our life in numerous ways.

Tune in now to learn how your job might be impacting your relationships, and what you can do about it!

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I’m doing all things I’m supposed to do, and yet life feels flat!

I’m doing all things I’m supposed to do, and yet life feels flat!

Most men have their big list – the things they’ve felt they have to do to be successful or make it in life. Often a blend of career, finances, relationship, and family, we burn through life working to make all these things happen with the belief that once we’ve achieved them, some utopia will be awaiting us. Unfortunately that magic utopia never comes, and even though we’re doing all the things we thought would bring us satisfaction and happiness, our lives still feel flat or empty.

Tune into another episode of the Dear Men Podcast, where Melanie Curtin and I discuss this dynamic we’ve seen in men and the path forward beyond it to true satisfaction!

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Oh sh*t! I just realized I’m a nice guy, now what?

Oh sh*t! I just realized I’m a nice guy, now what?

Nice guy syndrome is everywhere. More and more men are waking up to the myriad of ways we often put ourselves last, usually to the detriment of everyone around us. In this episode of the Dear Men podcast, my coaching partner Melanie and I talk about the steps to take to move beyond the nice guy into becoming a kind man.

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