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For men wanting to deepen their presence in the world, clarify their purpose, and/or more easily connect with their power. Ways to work with me include men’s groups, deep dive shadow weekends, and our signature virtual transformation for men wanting to deepen their relationships with women (and life) – Pillars of Presence.
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How the Love Languages Can Help Your Relationship Thrive
When our connection tank is full, so many things in intimate relationship go SO much easier! When it’s empty, even the smallest frictions can cause a lot of disharmony. Learning to love our partners well is a practice as much as anything else in relationship, and the Five Love Languages as described by Gary Chapman are a powerful tool for making that happen.
Men, Body Image, and Shame
There’s more and more discussion these days of how hollywood, instagram, porn, and more negatively impact the body image of women. What’s talked about less is the impact all of it can have on men too. Cultural expectations for what a male body “should” look like have changed in pretty drastic ways over the last decades, and that has an impact on us men too!
How Some Men Use Sex with their Women for Self-Regulation
When men aren’t given the tools or education about how to self-regulate and handle their emotions, stress, shame, and loneliness, we can often use sex as a way to feel better. Listen in to another episode of the Dear Men Podcast, where Melanie Curtin and I talk about how this dynamic can often play out, and how damaging it can be to our partners when we use them for regulation unconsciously.
How to Know When She’s Interested
Many nice guys don’t want to make a move until they know a woman is interested in them, but don’t always know how to get a read when that’s true. Tune in to another episode of the Dear Men Podcast, where host Melanie Curtin and I discuss what to look out for, and the importance of not just waiting.
Riding the Rollercoaster When One Partner is Thriving and the Other is Diving
Stay in any relationship long enough and you’re bound to have the experience of one partner being up, and the other being down. As men, how do we navigate this dynamic in intimacy and relationship, whether we’re the ones diving headfirst into the ground, or the ones thriving in abundance. Tune in to another episode of the Dear Men Podcast as Melanie Curtin and talk about some of the insights we’ve gleaned from our own lives, and the lives of the many clients we’ve worked with.
The Pain of a Partner “just doing her duty”
There are a lot of stereotypes thrown around about men, one of them being men just “want sex” and don’t care about anything else.
While that’s obviously true for some men, it’s most definitely not for many.
One of the most painful experiences men have shared with me over the last few years, particularly men in relationship is when their partner is just “giving them” sex but without any passion or connection.
Tune in to another episode of the Dear Men Podcast, where my coaching colleague Melanie Curtin and I discuss this painful dynamic.
