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For men wanting to deepen their presence in the world, clarify their purpose, and/or more easily connect with their power. Ways to work with me include men’s groups, deep dive shadow weekends, and our signature virtual transformation for men wanting to deepen their relationships with women (and life) – Pillars of Presence.
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The Painful Relationship Pattern of Feeling Like Not Enough
Back with Melanie on the Dear Men Podcast to talk about one of the most painful patterns men can experience in relationship which centers around feeling like not being enough for our partners. In many hetereo relationships, the dance of “I’m not enough” felt by many men often collides with the feeling of “I’m too much” that’s often felt by women. In this episode we break down this pattern, share about where it’s shown up in our own relationships and those of our clients, and talk about steps to move beyond it.
How Your Job Can Make It Harder to Connect With Women
On this episode of the Dear Men Podcast, host Melanie Curtin and I discuss how what makes us great at certain professions can actually hinder our ability to connect with women or others in relationships. High intensity medical jobs, isolated and work from home coding jobs, and jobs with unpredictable schedules or high demand can impact our life in numerous ways.
Tune in now to learn how your job might be impacting your relationships, and what you can do about it!
I’m doing all things I’m supposed to do, and yet life feels flat!
Most men have their big list – the things they’ve felt they have to do to be successful or make it in life. Often a blend of career, finances, relationship, and family, we burn through life working to make all these things happen with the belief that once we’ve achieved them, some utopia will be awaiting us. Unfortunately that magic utopia never comes, and even though we’re doing all the things we thought would bring us satisfaction and happiness, our lives still feel flat or empty.
Tune into another episode of the Dear Men Podcast, where Melanie Curtin and I discuss this dynamic we’ve seen in men and the path forward beyond it to true satisfaction!
Oh sh*t! I just realized I’m a nice guy, now what?
Nice guy syndrome is everywhere. More and more men are waking up to the myriad of ways we often put ourselves last, usually to the detriment of everyone around us. In this episode of the Dear Men podcast, my coaching partner Melanie and I talk about the steps to take to move beyond the nice guy into becoming a kind man.
When shame, self-loathing, and the inner critic get in the way of your love life…
For many men seeking a romantic partner, one of the biggest things that can often get in the way is themselves. So many guys talk themselves out of even approaching someone they’re attracted and they don’t even give themselves a chance.
Underneath this freeze are often pretty deep feelings of shame, self-loathing, and a fierce inner critic.
Check out yet another episode of the Dear Men Podcast, where host Melanie Curtin and explore this painful place for so many men.
How the Love Languages Can Help Your Relationship Thrive
When our connection tank is full, so many things in intimate relationship go SO much easier! When it’s empty, even the smallest frictions can cause a lot of disharmony. Learning to love our partners well is a practice as much as anything else in relationship, and the Five Love Languages as described by Gary Chapman are a powerful tool for making that happen.