No man becomes great alone
EVERY MAN SHOULD BE IN A MEN'S GROUP
Coaching, men's groups, and shadow work for men ready to stop going through the motions and start showing up for real.
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FIND YOUR PATH
The one thing I've seen move the needle more than anything else is consistent connection with other men who won't let you hide.
12 WEEKS · ONLINE
MEN's GROUP Experience
Your own men's group, built from the ground up. Peer-led group with structure I provide. The groups that last are the ones you own.
3+ Days · LIVE RETREAT
LABOR DAY RETREAT
A long weekend in Northern California doing real work. Shadow, presence, embodiment, nature, and real connection wiht other men.
16 WEEKS · VIRTUAL
PILLARS OF PRESENCE
16 weeks of deep coaching with me and Melanie Curtin. Presence, polarity, intimacy, purpose, shadow, and a lifelong community of men.
9 WEEKS · ONLINE + LIVE RETREAT
THE HEART OF SHADOW
Virtual program that includes a live retreat. Whatever you're carrying in your body and haven't looked at, this is where you bring it.
PACED TO YOU · ONLINE
PRIVATE COACHING
One-on-one with me. Your life, your pace, my full attention. For men who want direct, personalized work on their own timeline.
WHAT'S YOUR EVOLUTIONARY EDGE?
Nine capacities shape how you show up in your relationships, your work, and your own body. This assessment shows you where you're strong and where that strength starts working against you.
Free. 20 minutes. Personalized results plus a 7-part field guide written for your archetype.
WHAT MEN ARE SAYING
Working with Jason has been phenomenal. I came to him for help working through some shadows, so that I don't bring old toxic patterns with me into my new relationship. Within six months we worked on various inner-child wounds, cultivated my capacity for groundedness alongside playfulness with my partner, as well as working through jealousy and communication blocks. The shifts have been utterly profound. I am at a place in my relationship which I never thought possible. Not only that, with the tools and insights I gain with Jason, I have trust in myself that I can sustain and grow this container.
The work was vulnerable, it was raw, it was fun, it was challenging as fuck. We started as strangers, and ended up as a group of brothers who turn towards their pain together, turn towards each other without judgment.
There is a magic that happens when men can be open and help each other grow. The goals I started with quickly fell by the wayside, only to be replaced by bigger, stronger, deeper, more passionate goals. My life, and the lives of my family, will forever be changed.
WHY MEN'S WORK MATTERS
You're not the only one carrying something you can't name. 15% of men now report having zero close friends. 80% of suicides are men. Most of them looked fine from the outside.
The career, the relationship, the house. None of it teaches you how to feel alive inside your own life. That gap doesn't close by thinking harder or pushing through. It closes in the company of other men who aren't going to let you hide.
That's why I believe every man should be in a men's group. You can't thrive in life alone, and you were never supposed to.
YOUR GUIDE
JASON LANGE
Founder of Evolutionary Men. Coach, facilitator, podcast host. Eight years of leading men's groups, coaching individuals and couples, and helping men stop padding their lives and start showing up for real.
Certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach. Trained in integral theory, shadow work, polarity, and somatic practice.
Jason has been sitting in men's circle since 2006.
BRING HER INTO THE WORK
12 EPIC DATES
A self-paced couples program with Jason and Violet Lange. Monthly date experiences designed to deepen intimacy, rebuild connection, and create the relationship you both want.
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