Evolutionary Men Labor Day Retreat

September 3rd - September 7th, 2026
Northern California

A Weekend of Transformation & Integration for Men

Leaving the ordinary world to dive into the unknown is a core part of the hero's journey of the masculine.

This powerful weekend will create an evolutionary container to sharpen, deepen, and open you.  You will become more intimate with who you are, and more clear about where you're going.

The weekend will focus on shadow-work, presence-work, and purpose-work. Morning embodiment practices will be mixed in with Q&A sessions, workshop sessions, and small group sessions.

  • Community. Get connected to other kick-ass men that will both support and challenge you in your journey of transformation and integration.
  • Embodiment. Focused practice sessions that will strengthen your nervous system and deepen your first-hand connection to your masculine essence.
  • Knowledge.  The right piece of information at the right time can transform everything.  Bring your questions and desires to our Q&A sessions.
  • Nourishment. Recharge your soul while enjoying catered food in a beautiful valley that highlights the best of Northern California.

 

Sharpen

Your Awareness

DEEPEN

Your Presence

Open

Your Body & Heart

Schedule

*this is subject to change depending on the needs of the group*

Thursday, September 3rd

4:00 pm to 5:00 pm
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Arrival & Check-in

5:00 pm - 6:00 pm
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Welcome Circle

6:15 pm to 7:30 pm
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Dinner

8:00 pm - 10:00 pm
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Evening Practice Session

Friday, September 4th

7:00 am to 8:00 am
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Morning Practice

8:00 am - 9:00 am
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Breakfast

9:00 am - 10:15 am
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Q & A / Integration

10:30 am - 12:30 pm
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Midday Practice

12:30 pm - 2:00 pm
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Lunch & Break

2:00 pm - 3:45 pm
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Afternoon Practice

4:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Q & A / Integration

5:15 pm - 6:30 pm
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Small Groups

6:30 pm - 7:45 pm
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Dinner

8:00 pm - 10:00 pm
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Evening Practice

Saturday, September 5th

7:00 am to 8:00 am
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Morning Practice

8:00 am - 9:00 am
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Breakfast

9:00 am - 10:15 am
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Q & A / Integration

10:30 am - 12:30 pm
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Midday Practice

12:30 pm - 2:00 pm
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Lunch & Break

2:00 pm - 3:45 pm
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Nature Hike

4:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Q & A / Integration

5:15 pm - 6:30 pm
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Small Groups

6:30 pm - 7:45 pm
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Dinner

8:00 pm - 10:00 pm
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Evening Practice

Sunday, September 6th

7:00 am to 8:00 am
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Morning Practice

8:00 am - 9:00 am
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Breakfast

9:00 am - 10:15 am
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Q & A / Integration

10:30 am - 12:30 pm
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Restorative Practice

12:30 pm - 1:30 pm
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Lunch & Break

2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
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Giving Back to the Land

5:15 pm - 6:30 pm
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Small Groups

6:30 pm - 8:00 pm
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Dinner

8:00 pm - 9:30 pm
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Evening Practice

Monday, September 7th

7:00 am to 8:00 am
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Morning Practice

8:00 am - 9:00 am
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Breakfast

9:15 am - 10:00 am
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Closing

11:00 am
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Departure

Your Facilitator | Jason Lange

Jason is a men's embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life's purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men's group for the growth and support opportunities they provide.

Jason applies an integral framework to all the work he offers, drawing on many disciplines and modalities to effectively serve. He has trained with John Wineland, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, Ken Wilber, Brother David Steindl-Rast, and Robert Augustus Masters.

Jason is blessed to be married to his amazing wife, Violet, who coaches women on love and femininity, and father to his amazing daughter Ruby.

Keep an eye on Jason Lange. You are going to start seeing his name more and more in the world of men's work.

Dr. Robert Glover
Author, "No More Mr. Nice Guy"

Guest Facilitators

Melanie Curtin

Melanie Curtin

Host of the Dear Men Podcast and relationship expert.

Melanie is an intimacy researcher and men’s coach with a Master’s in Communication from Stanford University.

She is a columnist at Inc. magazine, and has been published or seen on TODAY, Huffington Post, Forbes, Business Insider, The New York Observer, and more.

She has been coaching men for over 15 years, and specializes in bringing a woman’s perspective to men, so they can connect and succeed with women in fun, inviting, and meaningful ways that lead to fulfilling sex and relationships.

Bryce Widom

Bryce Widom

Men's Guide

Bryce Widom has clocked tens of thousands of hours on a soul-searching path, with an aim of cultivating a greater self-honesty and integrity-in-action. He's also put in 30+ years on a medicine path; 25 years as a professional artist; a decade of martial arts training and assistant teaching; a personal yoga practice that's been ongoing since his teens; a lifetime intimacy with Nature, rooted in his Alaskan childhood; years engaging in and facilitating men's work, including 18+ years in the same men's group; over two decades of personal study in the enneagram; volunteer work in hospice; ceremonial guidance with his partner Victoria; and fathering two stellar teens.

Registration

Lodging + Tuition + Meals Included

Registrations fees vary depending on the lodging you choose below.  There are no additional fees beyond what's listed - price includes your lodging, event tuition, and meals.

There are a range of lodging options available, ranging from hotel style private rooms with private baths, to glam tents with a shared bath house (private showers) and outdoor kitchen.  The event is capped at 26 men.

** Transportation not included.**

** Due to the limited number of spots, there are no refunds unless it's an exceptional circumstance.**

Glam Tents

Each tent has two heated twin beds and offers a spacious, light filled, upgrade on the typical camping experience. Our tents provide an opportunity for guests to feel closer to the natural landscape. A shared bathhouse and camp kitchen is a short walk from the tents on the same scenic knoll as the Madrone Yurt meeting/yoga space.

Private tents are sold out.  Shared tents are 2 men per tent. 

 

Shared Glam Tent

Twin bed in shared tent + shared bathroom

9 in stock

Single Pay

$2,150.00

9 in stock

3x Payment Plan

$716.67 / month for 3 months

9 in stock

Bunk House

The Bunk House has its own private deck, kitchen, and full bath (with claw-foot tub and shower). It has multiple twin beds, and it includes an octagonal living room with an open kitchen, creating a space filled with natural light. Large windows and built-in window seats lining the common space provide beautiful panoramic views of the garden and valley.

3 men max in this room.

Bunk House Twin Bed

Twin bed in the bunk house, shared in room bathroom

1 in stock

Single Pay

$2,230.00

1 in stock

Payment Plan

$744.00 / month for 3 months

1 in stock

The Barn

The Barn is above one of the meeting spaces, and is a 3-bedroom apartment with a full kitchen, dining table, living room with wood stove, and a full bathroom. The Verbena room has one twin bed. You'll also be able to easily enjoy the nearby hot tub and are located just steps away from our dining area.

ALL ROOMS RESERVED

Toll House

The historic Toll House was built in 1912 and has been thoughtfully updated with conventional comforts without losing its historical roadhouse charm. There is a formal dining room in addition to a living room with a fireplace, and a large wraparound deck with lots of outdoor seating. There are four bedrooms in the Toll House, one on the main floor and three upstairs.  You'll also be able to enjoy the nearby hot tub!

ALL ROOMS RESERVED

Getting There

Flying

The retreat center is just over an hour north of Santa Rosa, CA in Sonoma County.

The nearest airport is Charles M. Schulz – Sonoma County Airport (STS) in Santa Rosa. A few major airports have direct flights there, otherwise you'll need to grab a connection to fly into there.

The next closest airports are Oakland International Airport (OAK), San Francisco International Airport (SFO), and Sacramento International Airport (SMF).  They're each about 2-3 hour drives away from the retreat center.

Transport

We'll have a community travel sheet where everyone can enter their arrival and departure flights + airports to organize carpooling/shared car rentals and possibly even organize a shuttle/van pickup at the airports where a bunch of guys are arriving.

Frequently Asked Questions

When is arrival on Thursday and departure on Monday?

You can check in at 4pm on Thursday, September 3rd before dinner and our opening session.

Checkout will be at 10am Monday, September 7th after a last practice session, closing circle, and breakfast.

Can I pay on a payment plan?

Yes, if you need to pay over multiple installments send a request!

What's the refund policy?

Due to the limited number of spots and the payments I made towards the space, there are no refunds unless it’s an exceptional circumstance.  I'll work with you to apply your payment to future events, men's groups, or coaching services. 

What about COVID

It's not going anywhere, unfortunately!  We require proof of a negative COVID test within the 24 hours before your arrival. When possible we'll be doing work in open air space, and you are always welcome to wear a mask if you wish, but it is not required.

Please use discretion in the week leading up to the event and during your travels as you will not be refunded if you test negative.

Are meals included?

Yes!  Dinner Thursday, 3 meals on Friday/Saturday, and Breakfast sunday will be provided from a local catering company.

Retreat questions? Send a message or hit the chat bubble in the bottom right.