Media Appearances

Check out a variety of podcast episodes of me talking about men's work, men's group, relationships, and so much more on a variety of podcasts.

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293: Give it to me whining! (Ft. Jason & Violet Lange) | Dear Men

Dear Men
All right, I had a blast on Melanie's podcast talking about emotional expression with my wife Violet. We got into something that's been a game changer in our relationship, this idea of three stages of emotional processing. Stage one is pure reactivity, stage two is that more spacious, let's talk it through approach, and stage...
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293: Give it to me whining! (Ft. Jason & Violet Lange) | Dear Men

289: Do Nice Guys tend to attract volatile women? | Dear Men

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There's a moment in my conversation with Melanie where she describes watching her client, a genuinely good-hearted man, trying to explain away his partner's explosive rage for the third time that week. He's sitting there, shoulders slumped, telling Melanie how maybe if he just communicated better, maybe if he was more patient, maybe if he...
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289: Do Nice Guys tend to attract volatile women? | Dear Men

277: Want to maximize polarity? Learn to do this well. | Dear Men

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What if the moments between your moments are actually where your relationship is won or lost? I got to talk with Melanie Curtin about something most men overlook but that makes a huge difference in our relationships: transitions. You know, those moments when we're shifting from one mode to another. Work to home. Solo time...
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277: Want to maximize polarity? Learn to do this well. | Dear Men

269: What women truly crave from men | Dear Men

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I loved getting into this conversation with Melanie about the different patterns we see in men, particularly what I call the Basic Bro and the Nice Guy. These aren't labels to box guys in. They're patterns I've seen over and over in my work, and ...
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269: What women truly crave from men | Dear Men

263: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman | Dear Men

Dear Men
Here's the tension that showed up in my conversation with Melanie Curtin about polarizing with powerful women: we want to be the strong, grounded presence our partners need, yet our instinct to fix and solve often becomes the very thing that creates distance between us. It's this paradox where our masculine desire to provide solutions...
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263: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman | Dear Men
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