Dear Men Episodes - Page 8 of 23

142: Afraid of being called creepy? This could be why | Dear Men

Here's the thing that's going to challenge everything you think you know about being creepy: the very fear of being creepy is often what makes men actually seem creepy in the first place. I discovered this counterintuitive truth during my conversation with Melanie Curtin on her podcast, where we explored how the internal war most...

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142: Afraid of being called creepy? This could be why | Dear Men

140: The line between her being abusive and her feminine storm (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange) | Dear Men

I had the chance to sit down with Melanie Curtin and my wife Violet on her podcast Dear Men to talk about something that comes up constantly in my work with men. The difference between a healthy feminine storm and actual abuse in relationship. This is tricky territory for a lot of guys. I see...

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140: The line between her being abusive and her feminine storm (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange) | Dear Men

137: Should you stay friends with her? | Dear Men

There's a moment in every man's life where he realizes he's been lying to himself about being "just friends" with someone he's attracted to. I got to join Melanie on her show to talk about something that comes up constantly with the guys I work with: Should you stay friends with a woman you're attracted...

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137: Should you stay friends with her? | Dear Men

135: How being ‘disrespectful’ could help your sex life | Dear Men

I got to dive into something on Melanie's podcast that's been coming up a lot in my work with men lately: how being too respectful with your language, especially around sex and desire, can actually kill attraction. We got into the nice guy trap around ...

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135: How being ‘disrespectful’ could help your sex life | Dear Men

134: Feel let down by your partner a lot? This might be why | Dear Men

I sat down with Melanie Curtin on her podcast Dear Men and we dove deep into something that's probably sabotaging more relationships than most guys realize. We talked about covert contracts, those invisible agreements we make in our heads without ever speaking them out loud. What struck me during our conversation was how universal this...

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134: Feel let down by your partner a lot? This might be why | Dear Men

132: What if she’s not doing the work? Can it work? (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange) | Dear Men

Melanie and I sat down with my wife Violet, and what started as a conversation about relationships quickly became something we probably should have talked about years ago. We found ourselves wrestling with one of those uncomfortable truths that couples dance around: what happens when one person is committed to healing and growth, and the...

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132: What if she’s not doing the work? Can it work? (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange) | Dear Men

126: If you don’t want sex with tons of women, is there something wrong with you? | Dear Men

There's this moment in my conversation with Melanie where I found myself admitting something I'd never said out loud before: that for years, I felt broken because I didn't want to sleep with every attractive woman I met. It's the kind of confession that cuts through all the bullshit we tell ourselves about masculinity, and...

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126: If you don’t want sex with tons of women, is there something wrong with you? | Dear Men

124: How to have the women YOU want, want you back | Dear Men

Here's the thing about unrequited love: we think it's about wanting someone we can't have, but it's actually about wanting something we're terrified to receive. I had a powerful conversation with Melanie Curtin on her show Dear Men about a pattern that used to run my life called the Super Crush. You know that woman...

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124: How to have the women YOU want, want you back | Dear Men

120: What if you’re still a virgin (or sexually inexperienced)? | Dear Men

When I think about the men in our community, I know there's a conversation we need to have that rarely gets the honest attention it deserves. That's exactly why I wanted to share my appearance on Melanie Curtin's podcast *Dear Men*, where I opened up ...

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120: What if you’re still a virgin (or sexually inexperienced)? | Dear Men

115: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? | Dear Men

I just wrapped up a great conversation with Melanie Curtin on her show Dear Men, digging into this question that comes up all the time: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? The short answer? It depends. On who, when, where, and what stage of life you're at. But we...

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115: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? | Dear Men

112: How quitting porn supercharged this man’s sex life | Dear Men

Most men think porn is about pleasure, but here's what I discovered after years of struggling with it myself: it's actually a regulation tool, a way to numb out and avoid the uncomfortable realities of life. I shared this insight during my conversation with Melanie Curtin on her podcast Dear Men, where we dove deep...

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112: How quitting porn supercharged this man’s sex life | Dear Men

65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY] | Dear Men

There was this moment in my conversation with Melanie Curtin where I found myself describing a relationship that made me cringe as the words left my mouth. I was telling her about dating someone who'd just moved to town with literally nothing, no job, no community, barely a place to live, and how I immediately...

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142: Afraid of being called creepy? This could be why | Dear Men

140: The line between her being abusive and her feminine storm (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange) | Dear Men

137: Should you stay friends with her? | Dear Men

135: How being ‘disrespectful’ could help your sex life | Dear Men

134: Feel let down by your partner a lot? This might be why | Dear Men

132: What if she’s not doing the work? Can it work? (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange) | Dear Men

126: If you don’t want sex with tons of women, is there something wrong with you? | Dear Men

124: How to have the women YOU want, want you back | Dear Men

120: What if you’re still a virgin (or sexually inexperienced)? | Dear Men

115: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? | Dear Men

112: How quitting porn supercharged this man’s sex life | Dear Men

65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY] | Dear Men

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