Enjoy these 29+ hours of powerful podcast episodes about what it takes for modern men to show up as healthy leaders in intimate relationships. Listen below or click the spotify playlist to queue them all up for a long drive.
I just wrapped up a conversation with Melanie Curtin on her show Dear Men, and we spent the whole hour digging into purpose. You know, the thing that keeps so many guys up at night. What I loved about this talk was getting real about the pressure men feel around purpose. There's this obsession, particularly...
I had one of those conversations with Melanie Curtin on her show Dear Men that kept circling back to the same thorny question: why do so many couples lose their spark the moment they move in together? We kept unpacking this thing I see all the time with the guys I work with, this dance...
The pickup artist world promises connection but actually teaches men to avoid it entirely. That's the counterintuitive insight I explored with Melanie Curtin on her show Dear Men, diving deep into my own history with that scene and what it ultimately revealed about authentic relating. We unpacked how I first discovered the pickup community in...
All right, I just wrapped up a conversation with Melanie Curtin on her show Dear Men, and we dove deep into a pattern I see all the time with guys. The white knight syndrome, this compulsion to rescue women who aren't actually available or ready for healthy relationship. I got pretty vulnerable about my own...
I appeared on Melanie Curtin's podcast "Dear Men" back in 2018, and we got into some real territory around dating, nice guy patterns, and what it actually takes to show up with women. This conversation covers a lot of ground I don't always talk about publicly. We explored my journey from total dating inexperience through...
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