THE EVOLUTIONARY MEN PODCAST
Lead in life & love with head, heart, and guts
Men’s guide Jason Lange on deepening your presence, clarifying your purpose, connecting with your power, and finding ease in dating and relationships. 164 episodes and 100,000 downloads.
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In this episode I'm joined by Jayson Gaddis, author of Getting to Zero, to talk about how to repair after a fight with your wife or partner.
100,000 downloads · 164 episodes · since 2021
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IF THE SEX STOPPED AND NEITHER OF YOU WILL SAY SO
Jason solo
IF YOU’VE SPENT YOUR LIFE BEING THE NICE ONE
with Dr. Robert Glover
IF YOUR HEAD RUNS THE SAME ARGUMENT AT 2AM
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IF NOBODY IN YOUR LIFE KNOWS WHAT YOU’RE ACTUALLY AFRAID OF
with Dr. Luke Adler
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Authors, therapists, prison facilitators, and the people Jason does this work with. Click any face for their episodes.
Dr. Luke AdlerCo-facilitator, The Heart of Shadow
Violet LangeDating + Intimacy Coach
Alistair MoesFounder, Moose Anger Management
Amir KhalighiFounder, Embodied Masculine
Benjamin RothImproviser and creative consultant
David RomeroAir Force veteran and psychedelic facilitator
Dr. Daniel EllenbergFounder, Men and Boys Compassion Coalition
Dr. Keith WittIntegral psychologist and author
Dr. Robert GloverAuthor of No More Mr. Nice Guy
Elizabeth AnnekaTouch coach
Gethin AldousCo-director, The Work
Jayson GaddisAuthor of Getting to Zero, founder of The Relationship School
Jeff RaabTheater artist and voice teacher
Karen McMahonDivorce coach, Journey Beyond Divorce
Keith Martin-SmithZen priest and martial artist
Luke EntrupRites of passage guide
Melanie CurtinHost, Dear Men Podcast
Michael HoltFounder, Savage & Saint
Rahi ChunSomatic sex educator
Roy Arthur BlodgettNaturalist and poet
Ryan GinnCouples therapist
Shana JamesHost, Man Alive Podcast
Ted RiterFormer rabbi, spiritual guide and relationship coach
Tripp LanierHost, The New Man PodcastBrowse by what you’re working on
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The Heart of Shadow
Thirty-three episodes with Dr. Luke Adler working the same terrain the program works: what you disowned, where it runs you, and how it comes back. Listened to in order, it reads as a course.
33 EPISODES · 2022 TO NOW · JASON LANGE, DR. LUKE ADLER, VIOLET LANGE
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From Enlightenment to Intimacy (with Luke Adler)
Chasing enlightenment can become one more way to leave your own experience. Dr. Luke Adler and I on waking down into intimacy, which is what most men actually need.
Cracking Open to Your Deepest Self (with Luke Adler)
Cracking open needs a container that will hold, which is why it almost never happens alone. Dr. Luke Adler and I on what makes a space safe enough for that.
The Purpose of Dating
Dating gets exhausting when you forget what it is for. Treat it as discovery, finding out who this person actually is, and your whole posture on a date changes.
Be a Lover Not a Lawyer
She tells you how something landed and you start quietly building your defense. What it takes to stay a lover in that moment instead of reaching for the case file.
Take Charge of Your Sexual Charge (with Luke Adler)
Every few years another teacher blows up an organization over sex he never looked at. Dr. Luke Adler and I on working your sexual charge before it works you.
Train at the Edges, Live in the Middle
You train past your capacity so that ordinary life stops feeling like a stretch. What training at the edge looks like for a nervous system, and why you do not live there.
Three Keys to Regain Your Center
Some days you wake up off and cannot say why. Three keys for getting your center back, starting with the one your senses respond to fastest, which is nature.
Leading with Vulnerability
Vulnerability is authenticity plus risk, and without the risk it is just a weather report. What your partner is actually asking for, and how to bring it as leadership.
Core Level Healing with Luke Adler
Dr. Luke Adler and I spent five days on retreat doing our own work, then sat down and told each other what we found. Core level healing without the polish.
The Herky-Jerky Lizard
A lizard on a deck jerked its head left, right, up, down, and I recognized the rhythm. What that twitchy scanning state is doing to you all day long.
Co-Ed Work Matters Too (with Violet Lange)
Working on yourself with men will only take you so far, because the reps you need are with women in the room. Violet Lange on what co-ed practice builds.
The Purpose of Men’s Work
Men's work is going mainstream and most descriptions of it miss the point. The outcome is aliveness you can feel in your body, and the rest follows from there.
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Most of what Jason talks about here gets practiced somewhere else, with other men, over months. That’s what the programs are for.