Practice, Not Pickup (with Violet Lange)
You feel solid until a woman walks in and you freeze or bury your desire. Violet Lange and I get into why solo work cannot close that gap, and how men get reps.
Violet Lange
Dating + Intimacy Coach
8 episodes on the show
Episodes with Violet Lange
The Heart of Shadow for Women (with Violet Lange & Luke Adler)
Men keep asking how to support the women in their lives through this work. Violet Lange, Dr. Luke Adler and I on what shadow work looks like when women do it.
What Season is Your Relationship In?
Your sex life can be in spring while your emotional connection sits in winter. Violet Lange and I walk the four seasons so you stop reading a hard stretch as a verdict.
The Five Scariest Moments in Our Relationship (with Violet Lange)
Every long relationship has moments where both people quietly wonder if this is the end. Violet Lange and I name our five, what was underneath each one, and what got us through.
Can Sex Keep Getting Better in Long-term Relationship?
You were told the sex fades after the wedding, and most couples around you confirm it. Violet Lange and I on what has kept ours getting better nine years in.
Our Three Biggest Fights as a Couple
Violet and I call our pattern the wall and the grenade. Three fights that nearly ended us, what was underneath each one, and how the repair actually happened.
Evolutionary Couples & 12 Epic Dates
Two hours a week is what most couples actually have for the relationship. Violet Lange and I on how to spend them so it grows instead of just gets maintained.
Co-Ed Work Matters Too (with Violet Lange)
Working on yourself with men will only take you so far, because the reps you need are with women in the room. Violet Lange on what co-ed practice builds.