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Men’s guide Jason Lange on deepening your presence, clarifying your purpose, connecting with your power, and finding ease in dating and relationships. 164 episodes and 100,000 downloads.
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IF THE SEX STOPPED AND NEITHER OF YOU WILL SAY SO
Jason solo
IF YOU’VE SPENT YOUR LIFE BEING THE NICE ONE
with Dr. Robert Glover
IF YOUR HEAD RUNS THE SAME ARGUMENT AT 2AM
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IF NOBODY IN YOUR LIFE KNOWS WHAT YOU’RE ACTUALLY AFRAID OF
with Dr. Luke Adler
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Dr. Luke AdlerCo-facilitator, The Heart of Shadow
Violet LangeDating + Intimacy Coach
Alistair MoesFounder, Moose Anger Management
Amir KhalighiFounder, Embodied Masculine
Benjamin RothImproviser and creative consultant
David RomeroAir Force veteran and psychedelic facilitator
Dr. Daniel EllenbergFounder, Men and Boys Compassion Coalition
Dr. Keith WittIntegral psychologist and author
Dr. Robert GloverAuthor of No More Mr. Nice Guy
Elizabeth AnnekaTouch coach
Gethin AldousCo-director, The Work
Jayson GaddisAuthor of Getting to Zero, founder of The Relationship School
Jeff RaabTheater artist and voice teacher
Karen McMahonDivorce coach, Journey Beyond Divorce
Keith Martin-SmithZen priest and martial artist
Luke EntrupRites of passage guide
Melanie CurtinHost, Dear Men Podcast
Michael HoltFounder, Savage & Saint
Rahi ChunSomatic sex educator
Roy Arthur BlodgettNaturalist and poet
Ryan GinnCouples therapist
Shana JamesHost, Man Alive Podcast
Ted RiterFormer rabbi, spiritual guide and relationship coach
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The Heart of Shadow
Thirty-three episodes with Dr. Luke Adler working the same terrain the program works: what you disowned, where it runs you, and how it comes back. Listened to in order, it reads as a course.
33 EPISODES · 2022 TO NOW · JASON LANGE, DR. LUKE ADLER, VIOLET LANGE
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How to Repair After a Fight (with Jayson Gaddis)
In this episode I'm joined by Jayson Gaddis, author of Getting to Zero, to talk about how to repair after a fight with your wife or partner.
The Mistake Men Keep Making (with Dr. Daniel Ellenberg)
In this episode I talk with Dr. Daniel Ellenberg. He has directed men's groups for more than forty years and earned the Practitioner of the Year award from the American Psychological Association's division for the psychology of men.
Inside Folsom Prison: The Hardest Men, The Deepest Work (with Gethin Aldous)
Lifers at Folsom sit in circle and break open in front of each other. If those men can go there, the story that this work is soft does not survive.
Strength with Heart: Sensitivity as Superpower (with Keith Martin-Smith)
Keith Martin-Smith grew up where shutting down was what men did, and his father never once cried. Twenty years in circle later, what came out the other side of that.
Why So Many Good Men Feel Empty
You built the life you were told would do it, and you still wake at three in the morning with an ache. Why men are this lonely now, and what actually feeds a man.
Shock Absorbers for Your Life
You invest your money and let your relationships compound at zero. Why a circle of men is the shock absorber that decides how hard the potholes in your life actually hit.
3 Ways Men Disconnect (and the Fix)
Three disconnections sit under most of the flatness men bring me, and the first one is from your own body. What each looks like, and the way back from each.
My Top 16 Men’s Group/Work Moments
Sixteen moments from men's groups and retreats, including the one where I asked eight guys to pile their bodies on top of mine. What each of them gave me.
Held by Men, Forged by the Fire (with Ted Riter)
Ted Riter spent thirty years as a rabbi before a collapse in his own life sent him into men's work. Grief, sacred masculinity, and what depth actually asks of you.
What Therapy and Coaching Can’t Give Men
Therapy gives you insight and coaching gives you a plan. Neither one gives you eight men who watch how you actually show up, which is the gap a group fills.
Awakening the Masculine Spirit (with Amir Khalighi)
Amir Khalighi has spent three decades walking men back into their bodies and out into the natural world. What embodied masculine means in practice, and where men get lost.
Men’s Group Experience
Paying someone to run your men's group makes you a customer of it. What keeps a peer led group alive for years, and how to start one without waiting for a facilitator.
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