THE EVOLUTIONARY MEN PODCAST
Lead in life & love with head, heart, and guts
Men’s guide Jason Lange on deepening your presence, clarifying your purpose, connecting with your power, and finding ease in dating and relationships. 164 episodes and 100,000 downloads.
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In this episode I'm joined by Jayson Gaddis, author of Getting to Zero, to talk about how to repair after a fight with your wife or partner.
100,000 downloads · 164 episodes · since 2021
Featuring Dr. Robert Glover, Dr. Keith Witt, Tripp Lanier, Shana James, Amir Khalighi and Gethin Aldous.
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IF THE SEX STOPPED AND NEITHER OF YOU WILL SAY SO
Jason solo
IF YOU’VE SPENT YOUR LIFE BEING THE NICE ONE
with Dr. Robert Glover
IF YOUR HEAD RUNS THE SAME ARGUMENT AT 2AM
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IF NOBODY IN YOUR LIFE KNOWS WHAT YOU’RE ACTUALLY AFRAID OF
with Dr. Luke Adler
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Authors, therapists, prison facilitators, and the people Jason does this work with. Click any face for their episodes.
Dr. Luke AdlerCo-facilitator, The Heart of Shadow
Violet LangeDating + Intimacy Coach
Alistair MoesFounder, Moose Anger Management
Amir KhalighiFounder, Embodied Masculine
Benjamin RothImproviser and creative consultant
David RomeroAir Force veteran and psychedelic facilitator
Dr. Daniel EllenbergFounder, Men and Boys Compassion Coalition
Dr. Keith WittIntegral psychologist and author
Dr. Robert GloverAuthor of No More Mr. Nice Guy
Elizabeth AnnekaTouch coach
Gethin AldousCo-director, The Work
Jayson GaddisAuthor of Getting to Zero, founder of The Relationship School
Jeff RaabTheater artist and voice teacher
Karen McMahonDivorce coach, Journey Beyond Divorce
Keith Martin-SmithZen priest and martial artist
Luke EntrupRites of passage guide
Melanie CurtinHost, Dear Men Podcast
Michael HoltFounder, Savage & Saint
Rahi ChunSomatic sex educator
Roy Arthur BlodgettNaturalist and poet
Ryan GinnCouples therapist
Shana JamesHost, Man Alive Podcast
Ted RiterFormer rabbi, spiritual guide and relationship coach
Tripp LanierHost, The New Man PodcastBrowse by what you’re working on
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The Heart of Shadow
Thirty-three episodes with Dr. Luke Adler working the same terrain the program works: what you disowned, where it runs you, and how it comes back. Listened to in order, it reads as a course.
33 EPISODES · 2022 TO NOW · JASON LANGE, DR. LUKE ADLER, VIOLET LANGE
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Men’s Group Experience
Paying someone to run your men's group makes you a customer of it. What keeps a peer led group alive for years, and how to start one without waiting for a facilitator.
How to Become a Dangerous Man (with Tripp Lanier)
Comfort is the thing that quietly takes men out. Tripp Lanier, my first men's coach, on what makes a man dangerous in the good sense, starting with being genuinely alive.
The Marlboro Trap (with Luke Adler)
The cowboy alone on his own acreage is the image most of us were handed. Dr. Luke Adler and I get into what that fantasy costs you every time you refuse help.
No More Mr. Lone Wolf (with Dr. Robert Glover)
Dr. Robert Glover wrote the book that woke a lot of us up. He and I get into what nice guy costs you, and why a group of men does what solo work cannot.
Why Success Alone Won’t Save You (with Luke Adler)
The dating gap and the jobs numbers are the symptoms everybody is counting. Dr. Luke Adler and I get into the emotional illiteracy underneath them that nobody is measuring.
Building a Men’s Group That Lasts for Life
Subscription men's groups die the month the facilitator moves on. Where to put the locus of control so your group is still meeting in fifteen years, and what ownership does to men.
Purpose, Love, and Wounding (with Luke Adler)
Dr. Luke Adler maps what blocked emotion does inside the body, and how a stagnant middle cuts a man off from love and from purpose at the same time.
What Are You Grounding Into?
Grounding as a state lasts about as long as the exhale. The question nobody asks is what you are grounding into, and whether that structure can actually hold your weight.
Brotherhood: The Missing Nutrient
The part of you that adapted to survive your family still runs the show under pressure. Dr. Luke Adler and I on why it only grows up through love from other men.
Turbocharge Your Growth with Masculine Feedback
Somebody telling you about the spinach in your teeth is uncomfortable for eight seconds and useful for years. Carefrontation, and why your blind spots need other men to see them.
Two Things Every Man Craves & Needs
Purpose is the felt sense that your presence matters. Belonging is knowing where you get missed when you do not show up, and most men are running short on both.
How to Become an Anti-Fragile Man (with Luke Adler)
Resilient means you survive the hit. Anti-fragile means the hit feeds you, and Dr. Luke Adler and I get into what has to be metabolized for that to become true.
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