One massive frustration and pain I often hear from guys that chat with me is that they just don’t get it- they tell me they’re solid guys in good enough shape with stable jobs – and yet they just can’t seem to attract the women they really...
https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/22ef556d-6c2e-4a4f-88dd-402af518ffcd/stream.mp3 This one’s personal, as I share on Dear Men about my experience as a late-bloomer / virgin, and the intense shame and fear I carried around as a result. It was something I...
https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/0238452b-0293-419d-8b8b-963bc7400137/stream.mp3 I recently had a chat with Melanie of the Dear Men Podcast again to go over the results of a survey she created – discussing who has it easier when it comes to hetero dating...
My Early Years with Pornography I started using porn in what was probably a fairly typical way for my generation, caught right at the transition between physical magazines and digital access. When I was young, hanging out with kids slightly older than me meant raiding...
I recently joined Dave Glaser on his podcast Believe Be Real Be Bold to talk about the power of men’s work, and how it can impact dating and relationships. We also talk about the Enneagram and how being an Enneagram 9 shows up in my life! Give it a listen and...
It’s simple. You aren’t deep enough. It’s not about having six pack abs, the perfect hairline, a massive salary, or a fancy sports car. Those are all surface and shallow representations of what the feminine is really craving from the masculine: depth. What is depth?...
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