On a recent episode of the podcast, Why Would She WANT to Have Sex with You?, I handed men a question most of us have never once asked, and I taught half of a map. The half you got was about sequence: for a lot of men, desire leads, and for many women, much of the...
If you want to touch a woman in a way that actually opens her, slow way down and start on the outside of her body. The inside of her forearm, her hair, the seam of a sleeve. Elizabeth Anneka, a touch coach for men, women, and couples, joined me on the podcast...
I used to wake up at 5 AM and hammer through an hour of practices. Qi Gong, breath work, meditation, then cold shower. I’d try to pack it all in before the day starts. Get those reps in. Check the boxes. Then I’d wonder why, after months of this...
“Every one of us walking onto that property was nervous.” So says one man on this episode, describing his experiencing attending his first in-person men’s retreat. If you’ve ever felt intimidated or unsure about doing in-person work with other men,...
https://audio2.redcircle.com/episodes/97d2d31e-3acd-4adc-bee1-77d92fa64fdb/stream.mp3 In this episode of the Dear Men Podcast, Luke Adler and I chat with Melanie Curtin about SHAME and how we’ve seen it show up in ourselves and our clients and how this...
In this episode of The Social Athlete, host Casey Wright and I discuss the crisis of male loneliness and isolation. We talk about the challenges men face in understanding how to show up in the world, the confusion around masculinity, and the shifting expectations of...
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