One of the Most Destructive Strategies Nice Guys Use in Dating & Relationships
Feeling resentful towards a partner you're in a relationship with or one you're currently courting?
You may be running a covert contract, ie, tryin…
Category: Dating
What if I show up and lead and she still can’t follow?
Join me and my wife Violet as we chat with Melanie of the Dear Men Podcast about the importance of the healing journey women have to take on their pat…
Men face sexual stereotypes and pressure too…you’re not weird if you don’t want to sleep with everyone
There's a lot of cultural expectation of how men are "supposed" to behave when it comes to sex. Listen in to this episode of the Dear Men podcast and…
How to Attract the Women You Want (Dear Men Podcast)
What does attachment style have to do with attraction? Why is it some of us are often hyper attracted to women that aren't actually attracted to us or…
The Somatic Secret to Dating & Attraction
One massive frustration and pain I often hear from guys that chat with me is that they just don’t get it– they tell me they’re…
The Shame I Battled as a Virgin
This one's personal, as I share on Dear Men about my experience as a late-bloomer / virgin, and the intense shame and fear I carried around as a resul…
Who has it easier getting into relationship? Men or Women?
I recently had a chat with Melanie of the Dear Men Podcast again to go over the results of a survey she created - discussing who has it easier when it…
The Costs of Porn Addiction
Porn is everywhere these days, and can impact our nervous systems and health and wellbeing in countless ways. Listen in to another episode of Dear Men…
Men’s Work Works – Believe Be Real Be Bold Podcast
I recently joined Dave Glaser on his podcast Believe Be Real Be Bold to talk about the power of men’s work, and how it can…
The reason radiant women aren’t attracted to you
It’s simple. You aren’t deep enough. It’s not about having six pack abs, the perfect hairline, a massive salary, or a fancy sports car. Those…