I sat down with Robert B. Foster on Shut Up And GRIND and we got into something that’s been on my mind for years: what the hell does it actually mean to be a man right now? Because the old models aren’t working, and the vacuum left behind has a lot of guys...
Most fathers never learn this until it’s too late: the same isolation that’s supposed to make you “strong” is actually what’s destroying your capacity to show up for your kids. I sat down with Andrew and Paul on the Why, Dad? podcast to...
I had a great conversation with Reignited Marriage about something that shows up in almost every marriage I work with: nice guy syndrome. This isn’t about being kind or considerate. Nice guy syndrome is about trying to earn love and approval through performing,...
I sat down with the Elsplend Realities podcast to talk about something that’s been at the core of my work for two decades: why so many men are walking around disconnected from themselves, and what actually changes that. We covered a lot of ground. The cultural...
I spent almost two hours on this podcast diving into something I don’t talk about enough: why so many men are walking through life feeling fundamentally alone, even when they’re surrounded by people. Brian and I went deep into the nervous system piece. How...
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