There’s a paradox sitting at the center of the male crisis right now. The things that would most help men are exactly the things most men have been taught to avoid their whole lives. This was Part 5b of an ongoing conversation on A Step Ahead Tutoring Services,...
There’s something most men don’t realize until it’s almost too late: the very traits our culture celebrated in us as boys—toughness, stoicism, self-reliance—are the same ones quietly destroying our relationships and mental health as adults. I spent a...
I sat down with Robert B. Foster on Shut Up And GRIND and we got into something that’s been on my mind for years: what the hell does it actually mean to be a man right now? Because the old models aren’t working, and the vacuum left behind has a lot of guys...
Most fathers never learn this until it’s too late: the same isolation that’s supposed to make you “strong” is actually what’s destroying your capacity to show up for your kids. I sat down with Andrew and Paul on the Why, Dad? podcast to...
I had a great conversation with Reignited Marriage about something that shows up in almost every marriage I work with: nice guy syndrome. This isn’t about being kind or considerate. Nice guy syndrome is about trying to earn love and approval through performing,...
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