THE EVOLUTIONARY MEN PODCAST
Lead in life & love with head, heart, and guts
Men’s guide Jason Lange on deepening your presence, clarifying your purpose, connecting with your power, and finding ease in dating and relationships. 164 episodes and 100,000 downloads.
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In this episode I'm joined by Jayson Gaddis, author of Getting to Zero, to talk about how to repair after a fight with your wife or partner.
100,000 downloads · 164 episodes · since 2021
Featuring Dr. Robert Glover, Dr. Keith Witt, Tripp Lanier, Shana James, Amir Khalighi and Gethin Aldous.
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IF THE SEX STOPPED AND NEITHER OF YOU WILL SAY SO
Jason solo
IF YOU’VE SPENT YOUR LIFE BEING THE NICE ONE
with Dr. Robert Glover
IF YOUR HEAD RUNS THE SAME ARGUMENT AT 2AM
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IF NOBODY IN YOUR LIFE KNOWS WHAT YOU’RE ACTUALLY AFRAID OF
with Dr. Luke Adler
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Authors, therapists, prison facilitators, and the people Jason does this work with. Click any face for their episodes.
Dr. Luke AdlerCo-facilitator, The Heart of Shadow
Violet LangeDating + Intimacy Coach
Alistair MoesFounder, Moose Anger Management
Amir KhalighiFounder, Embodied Masculine
Benjamin RothImproviser and creative consultant
David RomeroAir Force veteran and psychedelic facilitator
Dr. Daniel EllenbergFounder, Men and Boys Compassion Coalition
Dr. Keith WittIntegral psychologist and author
Dr. Robert GloverAuthor of No More Mr. Nice Guy
Elizabeth AnnekaTouch coach
Gethin AldousCo-director, The Work
Jayson GaddisAuthor of Getting to Zero, founder of The Relationship School
Jeff RaabTheater artist and voice teacher
Karen McMahonDivorce coach, Journey Beyond Divorce
Keith Martin-SmithZen priest and martial artist
Luke EntrupRites of passage guide
Melanie CurtinHost, Dear Men Podcast
Michael HoltFounder, Savage & Saint
Rahi ChunSomatic sex educator
Roy Arthur BlodgettNaturalist and poet
Ryan GinnCouples therapist
Shana JamesHost, Man Alive Podcast
Ted RiterFormer rabbi, spiritual guide and relationship coach
Tripp LanierHost, The New Man PodcastBrowse by what you’re working on
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The Heart of Shadow
Thirty-three episodes with Dr. Luke Adler working the same terrain the program works: what you disowned, where it runs you, and how it comes back. Listened to in order, it reads as a course.
33 EPISODES · 2022 TO NOW · JASON LANGE, DR. LUKE ADLER, VIOLET LANGE
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18 episodes matching Purpose & Direction
Why You Feel Like You’re Not Driving Your Own Life
Job fine, family fine, and a dread on Sunday night you cannot attach to anything. Two compasses for finding your direction once school and career stop setting it for you.
The Provider Trap: What Scott Galloway Leaves Out
Provider, protector, procreator is real advice and it is half a map. The two quadrants Scott Galloway skips, your interior life and other men, are where the crisis actually lives.
Why So Many Good Men Feel Empty
You built the life you were told would do it, and you still wake at three in the morning with an ache. Why men are this lonely now, and what actually feeds a man.
How to AI Proof Yourself as a Man
Anything you do by repetition is getting automated. Four capacities worth building now so that what you bring to work and to your family still has value in ten years.
How to Become a Dangerous Man (with Tripp Lanier)
Comfort is the thing that quietly takes men out. Tripp Lanier, my first men's coach, on what makes a man dangerous in the good sense, starting with being genuinely alive.
Why Success Alone Won’t Save You (with Luke Adler)
The dating gap and the jobs numbers are the symptoms everybody is counting. Dr. Luke Adler and I get into the emotional illiteracy underneath them that nobody is measuring.
Purpose, Love, and Wounding (with Luke Adler)
Dr. Luke Adler maps what blocked emotion does inside the body, and how a stagnant middle cuts a man off from love and from purpose at the same time.
Two Things Every Man Craves & Needs
Purpose is the felt sense that your presence matters. Belonging is knowing where you get missed when you do not show up, and most men are running short on both.
Pick a Lens for Your Year
A goal is something you can fail. A lens just changes what you notice for twelve months, and mine has reshaped decisions I never saw coming. How to pick yours.
Shadow Work for the Chronically Driven
You cannot feel how tired you are, which is exactly why you keep going. Dr. Luke Adler and I on the numbness under chronic drive, and how sensation comes back.
The Unique Pain of Debt
Debt has its own pain, whether it sits on a credit card, on your body, or in a garage you cannot park in. What paying mine down took, and where men stall.
How to Achieve More and Increase Your Impact
You set the goal because you are in pain, then miss it and prove the belief that caused the pain. Regulate the nervous system first and watch what becomes possible.
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