Back with Melanie on the Dear Men Podcast to talk about one of the most painful patterns men can experience in relationship which centers around feeling like not being enough for our partners. In many hetereo relationships, the dance of "I'm not enough" felt by many men often collides with the feeling of "I'm too much" that's often felt by women. In this episode we break down this pattern, share about where it's shown up in our own relationships and those of our clients, and talk about steps to move beyond it.

On this episode of the Dear Men Podcast, host Melanie Curtin and I discuss how what makes us great at certain professions can actually hinder our ability to connect with women or others in relationships. High intensity medical jobs, isolated and work from home coding jobs, and jobs with unpredictable schedules or high demand can impact our life in numerous ways. Tune in now to learn how your job might be impacting your relationships, and what you can do about it!

Most men have their big list - the things they've felt they have to do to be successful or make it in life. Often a blend of career, finances, relationship, and family, we burn through life working to make all these things happen with the belief that once we've achieved them, some utopia will be awaiting us. Unfortunately that magic utopia never comes, and even though we're doing all the things we thought would bring us satisfaction and happiness, our lives still feel flat or empty. Tune into another episode of the Dear Men Podcast, where Melanie Curtin and I discuss this dynamic we've seen in men and the path forward beyond it to true satisfaction!