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The Problems with Polarity

Having been swimming in the waters of polarity, sexual yoga, and erotic friction for a while now, I was happy to have a chat with Melanie Curtin on the Dear Men Podcast about some of the problems that can surface in this work. This episode has lots of feedback from clients we've worked with, plus our own take's on some of the issues we frequently see or experience!

Stepping Into Your Power as a Man

In this episode of the Dear Men Podcast, Melanie Curtin and I chat about WTF it means for us to actually step into our power as men, how important that particularly is for nice guys, and share some huge wins from our clients demonstrated the shifts they've made.

Redefining Masculinity and Cultivating Authentic Male Connections

In this episode of The Social Athlete, host Casey Wright and I discuss the crisis of male loneliness and isolation. We talk about the challenges men face in understanding how to show up in the world, the confusion around masculinity, and the shifting expectations of men in society.
Oh sh*t! I just realized I’m a nice guy, now what?

Oh sh*t! I just realized I’m a nice guy, now what?

When shame, self-loathing, and the inner critic get in the way of your love life…

When shame, self-loathing, and the inner critic get in the way of your love life…

How the Love Languages Can Help Your Relationship Thrive

How the Love Languages Can Help Your Relationship Thrive

Men, Body Image, and Shame

Men, Body Image, and Shame

How Some Men Use Sex with their Women for Self-Regulation

How Some Men Use Sex with their Women for Self-Regulation

How to Know When She’s Interested

How to Know When She’s Interested

Riding the Rollercoaster When One Partner is Thriving and the Other is Diving

Riding the Rollercoaster When One Partner is Thriving and the Other is Diving

The Pain of a Partner “just doing her duty”

The Pain of a Partner “just doing her duty”

The Impact of the Father Wound

The Impact of the Father Wound

Where I Changed More in 20 Minutes Than in Years of Therapy

Where I Changed More in 20 Minutes Than in Years of Therapy

How Introverts and Extroverts Can Make Intimate Relationship Work

How Introverts and Extroverts Can Make Intimate Relationship Work

Three Patterns that Can Torpedo Your Sex Life in Marriage or Relationship

Three Patterns that Can Torpedo Your Sex Life in Marriage or Relationship

What Many Men Suffer Early in Life That F*cks Up Their Relationships

What Many Men Suffer Early in Life That F*cks Up Their Relationships

How to Handle Criticism as a Man (particularly your woman’s)

How to Handle Criticism as a Man (particularly your woman’s)

Healthy Anger vs Passive-Aggression in Intimate Relationships

Healthy Anger vs Passive-Aggression in Intimate Relationships

The Top Things We’ve Learned Coaching Men around Sex & Relationships

The Top Things We’ve Learned Coaching Men around Sex & Relationships

The Challenge of Approaching a Long-term Partner / Wife for Sex

The Challenge of Approaching a Long-term Partner / Wife for Sex

The Impact of Weed & Booze on Your Love Life

The Impact of Weed & Booze on Your Love Life

Psychedelics & Healing

Psychedelics & Healing

The Emotional Journey of the Masculine

The Emotional Journey of the Masculine

It’s Your Choice – Midlife Crisis or Midlife Transformation

It’s Your Choice – Midlife Crisis or Midlife Transformation

Our sex is electric but everything else is a disaster! What’s going on?

Our sex is electric but everything else is a disaster! What’s going on?

Why I Ditched My Wife the Night We Met…and How It Turned Her On

Why I Ditched My Wife the Night We Met…and How It Turned Her On

Can Heterosexual Spouses Have Opposite Sex Friends?

Can Heterosexual Spouses Have Opposite Sex Friends?