The thing that hurts the masculine the most

Even when just playing for fun, the masculine always prefers to win over losing because let's face it, it feels BETTER. When things don't go our way and something doesn't work out, it stings, be it in work, relationships, or our health. Those stings can stack up over...

Stop chasing women and do this instead

Neediness is one of the most UNATTRACTIVE qualities we can embody as men, and it's often present in subtle ways more than we realize. Humans are social creatures, and our nervous systems are WIRED for connection from top to bottom, and intimate relationships are one...

The hidden force that drives many men into the friendzone

One of the traps us nice guys fall into over and over again is getting stuck in the so called "friend zone". We're attracted to a woman, connect with her, and then our relational dynamic stays one in which we're seen as good guy, but not someone she necessarily thinks...
The thing that hurts the masculine the most

The thing that hurts the masculine the most

Even when just playing for fun, the masculine always prefers to win over losing because let's face it, it feels BETTER. When things don't go our way and something doesn't work out, it stings, be it in work, relationships, or our health. Those stings can stack up over...

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Stop chasing women and do this instead

Stop chasing women and do this instead

Neediness is one of the most UNATTRACTIVE qualities we can embody as men, and it's often present in subtle ways more than we realize. Humans are social creatures, and our nervous systems are WIRED for connection from top to bottom, and intimate relationships are one...

read more
The hidden force that drives many men into the friendzone

The hidden force that drives many men into the friendzone

One of the traps us nice guys fall into over and over again is getting stuck in the so called "friend zone". We're attracted to a woman, connect with her, and then our relational dynamic stays one in which we're seen as good guy, but not someone she necessarily thinks...

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Polarity: Practicing Difference in Relationship

Polarity: Practicing Difference in Relationship

https://api.podcache.net/episodes/7fe42a70-9c92-4c3b-b7ee-fc3a3020532e/stream.mp3 Jumped back in front of the mic for another amazing episode of Dear Men with my friend and co-coach Melanie Curtin. In this episode, we talk some of the nuts and bolts of practicing...

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Information is not Transformation

Information is not Transformation

We're living in an INCREDIBLE time where we have access to all of human knowledge in a tiny device we can carry with us wherever we go. But the truth is, sometimes it's a TRAP. It's a journey I walked myself, amassing a huge collection of books, pdfs, courses,...

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You are responsible for the type of women you attract

You are responsible for the type of women you attract

Here's a hard truth some men aren't going to like: You are responsible for the type of women you attract. Time and time again we get comments on ads, posts, and videos, about how "women just want guys with good looks or huge wallets". Or "all women are cheaters, gold...

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The surprising advantage nice guys have in dating

The surprising advantage nice guys have in dating

One of the biggest myths out there is that nice guys finish last and that "jerks" end up attracting all the women. Why does this myth exist and how does deconstructing it prove that nice guys actually have a huge advantage in dating and relating? Let's dive in and...

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4 Elements of a Powerfully Fulfilling Life

4 Elements of a Powerfully Fulfilling Life

A great life doesn't just happen - it has to be created. I talk a lot about PURPOSE on this blog and in my coaching, and sometimes it can seem totally overwhelming to find the "one thing" we're supposed to be doing. As discussed before, I thin it's far more useful to...

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The Top 5 Dating Mistakes Nice Guys Make

The Top 5 Dating Mistakes Nice Guys Make

Nice guys don't have to finish last. I've now trained hundreds of men and coached dozens more one-on-one to find the freedom they desire in dating and relating. Along the way I've discovered five HUGE mistakes nice guys make over and over again that kill attraction...

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Women really want you to do this… (Dear Men)

Women really want you to do this… (Dear Men)

Guys women really do like it when men take the lead in dating and relationships. In fact, its a massive source of turn-on for many of them! In this episode of the Dear Men Podcast, Melanie and I debrief the previous episode where four different women share first hand...

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