One of the most common challenges I hear from men in long-term relationships is how to keep the romantic spark alive. You know that feeling when you’ve been together for a year or two, moved in together, and suddenly you’re more like roommates than lovers?...
One of the most powerful ways to torpedo your life and wreck your well-being is one I’ve seen all too many men fall prey to (and certainly done myself), getting stuck in our heads. So what’s that actually mean? Being stuck in our heads mean our attention...
One of the biggest struggles I see with many of the men I work with around dating & relationships is with their sexuality. Many of us nice guys have no desire to be “one of those guys” that’s just out to get sex. As a result, we’ll be...
“I want to be more confident.” I hear that phrase a lot from men, both when it comes to dating and when it comes to their lives. It’s a pervasive belief in our culture that confidence is what leads to greatness. I’m calling bullshit on that...
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