I’ve been working with men around relationships and sexuality for years now, and some patterns have become crystal clear. When Melanie Curtin and I were reflecting on what we’ve learned from coaching men together, three key insights stood out that every...
https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/776ca2f3-75a0-4b70-8881-1ee2d36f5f6c/stream.mp3 Back on the Dear Men Podcast with my co-coach Melanie Curtin to talk about the sometimes painful paradox of initiating or asking for sex becoming more challenging the longer and more...
https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/361a516b-eec4-4975-8d51-8672b417a8e0/stream.mp3 Ever had the experience of meeting someone who immediately hits your attraction system as a 12 out of 10, there’s an intense & electric compulsion to be with them, AND the...
https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/9f11ad6d-f499-4c2d-b477-220dc561e300/stream.mp3 Building on some of the themes we’ve explored in recent episodes, Dear Men Podcast host Melanie Curtin and I dive in to explore some of the clear red flags that a relationship,...
https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/08d049b6-a9c5-42aa-8df1-240011dce9a1/stream.mp3 A big fear a lot of good men have these days when it comes to relating to women stems from rightfully not wanting to come across as a sexual creep or pervert. After #metoo unveiled...
https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/aff4b894-9343-4cb6-bc77-cdca209d5090/stream.mp3 The words we use reflect the deeper values we hold in our bodies. Listen in to this episode of the Dear Men podcast where we dive into some interesting patterns Melanie discovered in...
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