https://stream.redcircle.com/episodes/6b4bf055-2d04-4a5d-9a09-34f7c3aa7b87/stream.mp3 My co-coach Melanie Curtin and I are back on her podcast Dear Men to chat about the delicate balance of how much, and when, to take personal space when in relationship. Enjoy! From...
“You’re being too sensitive!” Have you ever been with a woman, be it a spouse, family member, or friend, and thought or said that phrase? It points to one of the most profound shifts that modern men can make when relating to women, and that’s...
One of the most powerful ways to torpedo your life and wreck your well-being is one I’ve seen all too many men fall prey to (and certainly done myself), getting stuck in our heads. So what’s that actually mean? Being stuck in our heads mean our attention...
You can’t fix her. Most of us try anyway. She brings a complaint, a problem, a hard day, and within seconds we’re in problem-solving mode, jaw set, running logic at it. That instinct comes from one of the real gifts of masculine energy: structure, giving...
Excited to return to the Dear Men Podcast with my friend and coaching partner Melanie Curtin. A pattern she and I see over and over in our work with men is exposed here, and it’s critical to having and maintaining healthy relationships. Whether it’s for...
“I want to be more confident.” I hear that phrase a lot from men, both when it comes to dating and when it comes to their lives. It’s a pervasive belief in our culture that confidence is what leads to greatness. I’m calling bullshit on that...
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