THE EVOLUTIONARY MEN PODCAST
Lead in life & love with head, heart, and guts
Men’s guide Jason Lange on deepening your presence, clarifying your purpose, connecting with your power, and finding ease in dating and relationships. 165 episodes and 100,000 downloads.
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Jason Gentile and his best friend from college lived eight blocks apart in LA, and they'd still go six months without seeing each other. Then they started seeing each other every week. What changed between them explains why so many successful men end up lonely. In this episode, we get into what actually gets a man who looks fine on paper to walk into a men's work retreat or group, and why the man who swears he has no fear can be the most afraid man in the room. We also talk about what it feels like to be tracked by other men (and what happens when nobody is), and the dentist appointment that showed my guest what men have stopped saying to each other.
100,000 downloads · 165 episodes · since 2021
Featuring Dr. Robert Glover, Dr. Keith Witt, Tripp Lanier, Shana James, Amir Khalighi and Gethin Aldous.
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IF THE SEX STOPPED AND NEITHER OF YOU WILL SAY SO
Jason solo
IF YOU’VE SPENT YOUR LIFE BEING THE NICE ONE
with Dr. Robert Glover
IF YOUR HEAD RUNS THE SAME ARGUMENT AT 2AM
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IF NOBODY IN YOUR LIFE KNOWS WHAT YOU’RE ACTUALLY AFRAID OF
with Dr. Luke Adler
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Authors, therapists, prison facilitators, and the people Jason does this work with. Click any face for their episodes.
Dr. Luke AdlerCo-facilitator, The Heart of Shadow
Violet LangeDating + Intimacy Coach
Alistair MoesFounder, Moose Anger Management
Amir KhalighiFounder, Embodied Masculine
Benjamin RothImproviser and creative consultant
David RomeroAir Force veteran and psychedelic facilitator
Dr. Daniel EllenbergFounder, Men and Boys Compassion Coalition
Dr. Keith WittIntegral psychologist and author
Dr. Robert GloverAuthor of No More Mr. Nice Guy
Elizabeth AnnekaTouch coach
Gethin AldousCo-director, The Work
Jason GentileMen's work facilitator and HumanMen board member
Jayson GaddisAuthor of Getting to Zero, founder of The Relationship School
Jeff RaabTheater artist and voice teacher
Karen McMahonDivorce coach, Journey Beyond Divorce
Keith Martin-SmithZen priest and martial artist
Luke EntrupRites of passage guide
Melanie CurtinHost, Dear Men Podcast
Michael HoltFounder, Savage & Saint
Rahi ChunSomatic sex educator
Roy Arthur BlodgettNaturalist and poet
Ryan GinnCouples therapist
Shana JamesHost, Man Alive Podcast
Ted RiterFormer rabbi, spiritual guide and relationship coach
Tripp LanierHost, The New Man PodcastBrowse by what you’re working on
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The Heart of Shadow
Thirty-three episodes with Dr. Luke Adler working the same terrain the program works: what you disowned, where it runs you, and how it comes back. Listened to in order, it reads as a course.
33 EPISODES · 2022 TO NOW · JASON LANGE, DR. LUKE ADLER, VIOLET LANGE
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Stop Trying to Get Rid of Parts of Yourself
You want the anger or the anxiety gone, and nobody in history has managed that. Moving from relating from a part to relating to it is where change starts.
Masculinity is a Transmission
Before the factories, boys learned manhood standing next to men all day long. What got lost in that shift, and where a man goes to receive the transmission now.
Psychedelics Are Not Enough
The medicine can crack something wide open in one night and you will still be you in the morning. What has to sit alongside it for the change to hold.
E-motion is necessary for ACTION
Emotion is energy in motion, so when you hold it in nothing moves, including you. Why your feelings are the fuel for the action you keep putting off.
The Most Powerful Tool for Transformation
The wounds around shame and trust were built in relationship, which is the only place they get repaired. Why relationship is the strongest tool for change you have.
What Protected You When You Were Young Is the Barrier to Getting What You Want as an Adult
The shutdown that kept you safe at nine years old is the same shutdown blocking you at forty. How to see a pattern that has been running you since childhood.
What It Takes to Really Change
Waking up is the part everybody talks about, and it is one quarter of the job. Four elements of real change, and why leaving one out stalls the whole thing.
Every Man Should Be in a Men’s Group
A group of men who gather on purpose to support and challenge each other has done more for my life than any other practice. What it is and how to start.
Real Men Feel Everything
A man who cannot be with his felt sense ends up run by it, and the charge bleeds into everything else. Why feeling all of it is the stronger move.
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The work behind the podcast
Most of what Jason talks about here gets practiced somewhere else, with other men, over months. That’s what the programs are for.