Evolutionary Men Labor Day Retreat
August 28th - September 1st, 2025Northern California
A Weekend of Transformation & Integration for Men
Leaving the ordinary world to dive into the unknown is a core part of the hero’s journey of the masculine.
This powerful weekend will create an evolutionary container to sharpen, deepen, and open you. You will become more intimate with who you are, and more clear about where you’re going.
The weekend will focus on shadow-work, presence-work, and purpose-work. Morning embodiment practices will be mixed in with Q&A sessions, workshop sessions, and small group sessions.
- Community. Get connected to other kick-ass men that will both support and challenge you in your journey of transformation and integration.
- Embodiment. Focused practice sessions that will strengthen your nervous system and deepen your first-hand connection to your masculine essence.
- Knowledge. The right piece of information at the right time can transform everything. Bring your questions and desires to our Q&A sessions.
- Nourishment. Recharge your soul while enjoying catered food in a beautiful valley that highlights the best of Northern California.
Sharpen
Your Awareness
DEEPEN
Your Presence
Open
Your Body & Heart
Schedule
*this is subject to change depending on the needs of the group*
Thursday, August 28th
Arrival & Check-in
Welcome Circle
Dinner
Evening Practice Session
Friday, August 29th
Morning Practice
Breakfast
Q&A
Practice Session
Lunch & Break
Afternoon Practice Session
Q&A
Small Group Session
Dinner
Evening Practice
Saturday, August 30th
Morning Practice
Breakfast
Q&A
Practice Session
Lunch & Break
Nature Hike
Q&A
Small Group Session
Dinner
Evening Practice Session
Sunday, August 31st
Morning Practice
Breakfast
Q&A
Feminine Restorative Practice with Melanie
Lunch & Break
Giving Back to the Land
Small Group Session
Dinner
Sacred Theater
Monday, September 1st
Morning Practice
Breakfast
Closing
Departure
Your Facilitator | Jason Lange
Jason is a men’s embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life’s purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men’s group for the growth and support opportunities they provide.
Jason applies an integral framework to all the work he offers, drawing on many disciplines and modalities to effectively serve. He has trained with John Wineland, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, Ken Wilber, Brother David Steindl-Rast, and Robert Augustus Masters.
His flagship online program, Pillars of Presence, is a 10 week bootcamp for men ready to transform their dating lives from the inside out that he co-leads with Melanie Curtin.
Jason is blessed to be married to his amazing wife, Violet, who coaches women on love and femininity, and father to his amazing daughter Ruby.
Keep an eye on Jason Lange. You are going to start seeing his name more and more in the world of men’s work.
Guest Facilitator
Melanie Curtin
Host of the Dear Men Podcast and relationship expert.
Melanie is an intimacy researcher and men’s coach with a Master’s in Communication from Stanford University.
She is a columnist at Inc. magazine, and has been published or seen on TODAY, Huffington Post, Forbes, Business Insider, The New York Observer, and more.
She has been coaching men for over 10 years, and specializes in bringing a woman’s perspective to men, so they can connect and succeed with women in fun, inviting, and meaningful ways that lead to fulfilling sex and relationships.
Registration
Lodging + Tuition + Meals Included
Doors Open Spring 2025!
Join the mailing list at the top of the page to stay informed when doors open in 2025, or check out The Heart of Shadow men’s group which includes a live retreat.
Registrations fees vary depending on the lodging you choose below. There are no additional fees beyond what’s listed – price includes your lodging, event tuition, and meals.
There are a range of lodging options available, ranging from hotel style private rooms with private baths, to glam tents with a shared bath house (private showers) and outdoor kitchen. The event is capped at 24 26 men.
** Transportation not included.**
** Due to the limited number of spots, there are no refunds unless it’s an exceptional circumstance.**
Bunk House
The Bunk House has its own private deck, kitchen, and full bath (with claw-foot tub and shower). It has multiple twin beds, and it includes an octagonal living room with an open kitchen, creating a space filled with natural light. Large windows and built-in window seats lining the common space provide beautiful panoramic views of the garden and valley. Only 2 men will occupy this room!
Glam Tents
Each tent has two heated twin beds and offers a spacious, light filled, upgrade on the typical camping experience. Our tents provide an opportunity for guests to feel closer to the natural landscape. A shared bathhouse and camp kitchen is a short walk from the tents on the same scenic knoll as the Madrone Yurt meeting/yoga space.
Share a tent with another man or book a private tent for yourself.
The Barn
The Barn is above one of the meeting spaces, and is a 3-bedroom apartment with a full kitchen, dining table, living room with wood stove, and a full bathroom. The Verbena room has one twin bed. You’ll also be able to easily enjoy the nearby hot tub and are located just steps away from our dining area.
Toll House
The historic Toll House was built in 1912 and has been thoughtfully updated with conventional comforts without losing its historical roadhouse charm. There is a formal dining room in addition to a living room with a fireplace, and a large wraparound deck with lots of outdoor seating. There are four bedrooms in the Toll House, one on the main floor and three upstairs. You’ll also be able to enjoy the nearby hot tub!
Getting There
Flying
The retreat center is just over an hour north of Santa Rosa, CA in Mendocino County.
The nearest airport is Charles M. Schulz – Sonoma County Airport (STS) in Santa Rosa. A few major airports have direct flights there, otherwise you’ll need to grab a connection to fly into there.
The next closest airports are Oakland International Airport (OAK), San Francisco International Airport (SFO), and Sacramento International Airport (SMF). They’re each about 2-3 hour drives away from the retreat center.
Transport
We’ll have a community travel sheet where everyone can enter their arrival and departure flights + airports to organize carpooling/shared car rentals and possibly even organize a shuttle/van pickup at the airports where a bunch of guys are arriving.
Frequently Asked Questions
When is arrival on Thursday and departure on Monday?
You can check in at 4pm on Thursday, August 28th before dinner and our opening session.
Checkout will be at 10am Monday, September 1st after a last practice session, closing circle, and breakfast.
Can I pay on a payment plan?
Yes, if you need to pay over multiple installments send a request!
What's the refund policy?
Due to the limited number of spots and the payments I made towards the space, there are no refunds unless it’s an exceptional circumstance. I’ll work with you to apply your payment to future events, men’s groups, or coaching services.
What about COVID
It’s not going anywhere, unfortunately! The venue requires proof of a negative COVID test taken within 48 hours of arrival. When possible we’ll be doing work in open air space, and you are always welcome to wear a mask if you wish, but it is not required.
Please use discretion in the week leading up to the event and during your travels.
Are meals included?
Yes! Dinner Thursday, 3 meals on Friday/Saturday, and Breakfast sunday will be provided from a local catering company.