Evolutionary Men Retreat

August 29th - September 2nd, 2024

Northern California


A Weekend of Transformation & Integration for Men

Leaving the ordinary world to dive into the unknown is a core part of the hero’s journey of the masculine.

This powerful weekend will create an evolutionary container to sharpen, deepen, and open you.  You will become more intimate with who you are, and more clear about where you’re going.

The weekend will focus on shadow-work, presence-work, and purpose-work. Morning embodiment practices will be mixed in with Q&A sessions, workshop sessions, and small group sessions.

  • Community. Get connected to other kick-ass men that will both support and challenge you in your journey of transformation and integration.
  • Embodiment. Focused practice sessions that will strengthen your nervous system and deepen your first-hand connection to your masculine essence.
  • Knowledge.  The right piece of information at the right time can transform everything.  Bring your questions and desires to our Q&A sessions.
  • Nourishment. Recharge your soul while enjoying catered food in a beautiful valley that highlights the best of Northern California.



Your Awareness


Your Presence


Your Body & Heart

Your Facilitator | Jason Lange

Jason is a men's embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life's purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men's group for the growth and support opportunities they provide.

Jason applies an integral framework to all the work he offers, drawing on many disciplines and modalities to effectively serve. He has trained with John Wineland, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, Ken Wilber, Brother David Steindl-Rast, and Robert Augustus Masters.

His flagship online program, Pillars of Presence, is a 10 week bootcamp for men ready to transform their dating lives from the inside out that he co-leads with Melanie Curtin.

Jason is blessed to be married to his amazing wife, Violet, who coaches women on love and femininity, and father to his amazing daughter Ruby.

Keep an eye on Jason Lange. You are going to start seeing his name more and more in the world of men's work.

Dr. Robert Glover

Author, "No More Mr. Nice Guy"

Guest Facilitator

Melanie Curtin

Melanie Curtin

Host of the Dear Men Podcast and relationship expert.

Melanie is an intimacy researcher and men’s coach with a Master’s in Communication from Stanford University.

She is a columnist at Inc. magazine, and has been published or seen on TODAY, Huffington Post, Forbes, Business Insider, The New York Observer, and more.

She has been coaching men for over 10 years, and specializes in bringing a woman’s perspective to men, so they can connect and succeed with women in fun, inviting, and meaningful ways that lead to fulfilling sex and relationships.

Getting There


The retreat center is just over an hour north of Santa Rosa, CA in Mendocino County.

The nearest airport is Charles M. Schulz – Sonoma County Airport (STS) in Santa Rosa. A few major airports have direct flights there, otherwise you'll need to grab a connection to fly into there.

The next closest airports are Oakland International Airport (OAK), San Francisco International Airport (SFO), and Sacramento International Airport (SMF).  They're each about 2-3 hour drives away from the retreat center.


We'll have a community travel sheet where everyone can enter their arrival and departure flights + airports to organize carpooling/shared car rentals and possibly even organize a shuttle/van pickup at the airports where a bunch of guys are arriving.

Frequently Asked Questions

When is arrival on Thursday and departure on Monday?

You can check in at 4pm on Thursday, August 29th before dinner and our opening session.

Checkout will be at 10am Monday, September 2nd after a last practice session, closing circle, and breakfast.

Can I pay on a payment plan?

Yes, if you need to pay over multiple installments send a request!

What's the refund policy?

Due to the limited number of spots and the payments I made towards the space, there are no refunds unless it’s an exceptional circumstance.  I'll work with you to apply your payment to future events, men's groups, or coaching services. 

What about COVID

It's not going anywhere, unfortunately!  The venue requires proof of a negative COVID test taken within 48 hours of arrival. When possible we'll be doing work in open air space, and you are always welcome to wear a mask if you wish, but it is not required.

Please use discretion in the week leading up to the event and during your travels.

Are meals included?

Yes!  Dinner Thursday, 3 meals on Friday/Saturday, and Breakfast sunday will be provided from a local catering company.

Questions? Send a message below or hit the chat bubble in the bottom right.

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