{"id":1515584,"date":"2023-12-30T18:08:33","date_gmt":"2023-12-31T02:08:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/evolutionary.men\/?p=1515584"},"modified":"2023-12-30T18:08:33","modified_gmt":"2023-12-31T02:08:33","slug":"the-polarity-of-nice-guys-volatile-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/evolutionary.men\/blog\/the-polarity-of-nice-guys-volatile-women\/","title":{"rendered":"The Polarity of Nice Guys &#038; Volatile Women"},"content":{"rendered":"<!--[if lt IE 9]><script>document.createElement('audio');<\/script><![endif]-->\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-1515584-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/audio2.redcircle.com\/episodes\/279dff11-eb01-4217-b25b-81b7c153f0cb\/stream.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/audio2.redcircle.com\/episodes\/279dff11-eb01-4217-b25b-81b7c153f0cb\/stream.mp3\">https:\/\/audio2.redcircle.com\/episodes\/279dff11-eb01-4217-b25b-81b7c153f0cb\/stream.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>Ever experienced a\u00a0powerful physical attraction to someone, but then found yourself chastised for a\u00a0perceived mistake, and eventually tiptoeing around to avoid upsetting your partner? If this sounds something like your experience, this discussion could prove interesting.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re one of those who wrestle with setting firm, healthy boundaries, you may have identified a\u00a0recurring trait in your dating and relationship history.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Through our experiences in aiding men, what we&#8217;ve frequently observed is a\u00a0distinct polarity. Men with &#8216;Nice Guy&#8217; tendencies tend to attract women possessing traits of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). These women are often vibrant, humorous, captivating, sharp-witted, pleasurable company&#8230;and yet, unpredictable. Being romantically involved with them can feel like riding an emotional roller coaster, filled with extreme highs and lows.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The good news? We&#8217;ve witnessed a\u00a0multitude of men transcend this cyclical pattern and mature beyond it. In this discussion, we delve into the intricacies of such a\u00a0pattern, the possible reasons, and potential solutions. Tune into another episode of the Dear Men Podcast!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Through our experiences in aiding men, what we&#8217;ve frequently observed is a\u00a0distinct polarity. Men with &#8216;Nice Guy&#8217; tendencies tend to attract women possessing traits of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). These women are often vibrant, humorous, captivating, sharp-witted, pleasurable company&#8230;and yet, unpredictable. 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