{"id":1509072,"date":"2021-02-19T09:19:59","date_gmt":"2021-02-19T17:19:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/evolutionary.men\/?p=1509072"},"modified":"2021-02-19T09:23:07","modified_gmt":"2021-02-19T17:23:07","slug":"storm-vs-abuse-healthy-vs-unhealthy-expressions-from-the-feminine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/evolutionary.men\/blog\/storm-vs-abuse-healthy-vs-unhealthy-expressions-from-the-feminine\/","title":{"rendered":"Storm vs Abuse: Healthy and Unhealthy Expressions from the Feminine"},"content":{"rendered":"<!--[if lt IE 9]><script>document.createElement('audio');<\/script><![endif]-->\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-1509072-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/stream.redcircle.com\/episodes\/814bfd13-95a4-4a52-81a7-11b9f213d865\/stream.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/stream.redcircle.com\/episodes\/814bfd13-95a4-4a52-81a7-11b9f213d865\/stream.mp3\">https:\/\/stream.redcircle.com\/episodes\/814bfd13-95a4-4a52-81a7-11b9f213d865\/stream.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>For many women, it&#8217;s a rare thing to experience men that welcome the full range of their feminine expressions and emotions. Learning to stay open and be present for our partners during such storms is an important edge for a lot of us men.<\/p>\n<p>However, holding space doesn&#8217;t mean receiving abuse, and it&#8217;s super important to learn to distinguish between healthy expressions of emotions and aggression and abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Tune in to another episode of the D<a href=\"https:\/\/www.melaniecurtin.com\/podcast\/140-the-line-between-her-being-abusive-and-her-feminine-storm-ft-jason-lange-violet-lange\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ear Men Podcast with Melanie Curtin<\/a> as my wife and I join her to discuss this important topic.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For many women, it&#8217;s a rare thing to experience men that welcome the full range of their feminine expressions and emotions. 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