The Power of Men’s Groups, Polarity, and the Evolution of Consciousness with Mark Van der Gaag

You’ve probably heard the little bumper sticker phrase that every crisis is also an opportunity. Like so much, our perspective often dictates what meaning we ascribe to our experiences.

Mark Van der Gaag recently sat down to chat with me during his Life Shift Summit to talk about many of the opportunities men are facing in these wild times. We cover a lot of ground, including masculine/feminine polarity, men’s group + men’s work, and how our consciousness continues to evolve well past adulthood.

Who has it easier getting into relationship? Men or Women?

I recently had a chat with Melanie of the Dear Men Podcast again to go over the results of a survey she created – discussing who has it easier when it comes to hetero dating and relationships, men or women? This is one where the grass always seems greener….and has a LOT to do with circumstances AND the amount of inner-work one has done. Listen in now – and what do you think?

The Secret to Masculine Success is Not What You Think

Whether it’s personal growth, creating a thriving relationship, or building a career of meaning and purpose, there’s one thing that more than anything else will determine the eventual outcome. The ability to RECOMMIT. Over my years of leading men’s groups and coaching...
You are responsible for the type of women you attract

You are responsible for the type of women you attract

Here's a hard truth some men aren't going to like: You are responsible for the type of women you attract. Time and time again we get comments on ads, posts, and videos, about how "women just want guys with good looks or huge wallets". Or "all women are cheaters, gold...

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The surprising advantage nice guys have in dating

The surprising advantage nice guys have in dating

One of the biggest myths out there is that nice guys finish last and that "jerks" end up attracting all the women. Why does this myth exist and how does deconstructing it prove that nice guys actually have a huge advantage in dating and relating? Let's dive in and...

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4 Elements of a Powerfully Fulfilling Life

4 Elements of a Powerfully Fulfilling Life

A great life doesn't just happen - it has to be created. I talk a lot about PURPOSE on this blog and in my coaching, and sometimes it can seem totally overwhelming to find the "one thing" we're supposed to be doing. As discussed before, I thin it's far more useful to...

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The Top 5 Dating Mistakes Nice Guys Make

The Top 5 Dating Mistakes Nice Guys Make

Nice guys don't have to finish last. I've now trained hundreds of men and coached dozens more one-on-one to find the freedom they desire in dating and relating. Along the way I've discovered five HUGE mistakes nice guys make over and over again that kill attraction...

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Women really want you to do this… (Dear Men)

Women really want you to do this… (Dear Men)

Guys women really do like it when men take the lead in dating and relationships. In fact, its a massive source of turn-on for many of them! In this episode of the Dear Men Podcast, Melanie and I debrief the previous episode where four different women share first hand...

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5 easy ways to boost your testosterone naturally (Dear Men)

5 easy ways to boost your testosterone naturally (Dear Men)

https://api.podcache.net/episodes/4abfdc47-c305-462c-b32f-15af7df1c60e/stream.mp3 Upping our self care is one of the most sure fire ways we can show up the most powerfully in life as men. Excited to make another appearance on the Dear Men Podcast with Melanie Curtin...

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Purpose is a funnel

Purpose is a funnel

Don’t get trapped in the binary belief you have to be “doing your passion” full time to be on purpose!

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Practice Structure to Attract the Feminine

Practice Structure to Attract the Feminine

Want to attract a radiant feminine partner? Then you need to practice having clear and solid structure throughout your life. Quite simply structure is form and it shows up in big and small ways in all aspects of your being. The better the structures in your life, the...

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Moving on from a breakup (Dear Men)

Moving on from a breakup (Dear Men)

Get over an ex can be tough when a relationship is over. In this episode of the Dear Men Podcast, Melanie and I chat about our personal experiences, what we've seen in our clients, and ways to accelerate the process! ...

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Two traits every man should cultivate to become unstoppable

Two traits every man should cultivate to become unstoppable

If you're a man wanting to step up in dating, an existing relationship, your career, or in having a bigger impact on the world, there are two essential traits it is essential to cultivate. Bringing these fully online is the path of the evolutionary man; those of us no...

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